We’ve not managed to get away this summer. Our long awaited WAV (wheelchair accessible vehicle) arrived the day before the schools went back. It has been a real struggle fitting Quinns and his Bug wheelchair in our car and has made days out very difficult if not impossible. The cinema has been our go to as are lucky to live within walking distance of the Macrobert Arts Centre, a creative hub which includes a cinema and a Changing Places toilet.

Quinns has always loved watching tv. It’s the one thing in life he doesn’t need help with. His interest in film began when he was really small. It started with films like Toy Story, Cars and then Planes: Fire and rescue, the film where his favourite song, Thunderstruck by AC/DC comes from. Last year he graduated to watching all the Star Wars films and quizzed everyone on his eye gaze with questions about which lightsaber they would rather own.

This year Marvel has taken over. He’s watched so many I’ve totally lost track. His knowledge on the subject is incredible. He loves to guess which Marvel character from clue cards. It’s a great way for him to show us and anyone who visits what he knows. 

We know he gets a lot out of watching tv programmes and films. Not only is it brilliant research for his budding film making career but we know he’s safe and happy watching at home. However unless he has persuaded one of us to join him it can be a fairly solitary activity. That is not ideal for our social butterfly so cinema is an obvious activity to get him out and about.

You would think it would be an easy and accessible activity. However a few years ago when I looked to take Quinns and Big Sister to our local major cinema I discovered it was not. The accessible seat was situated (caged in) right at the front of the cinema with only one carer seat next to it. 

My dilemma, do I sit next to Quinns and send Big Sister, then aged 9, off to sit on her own in the body of the cinema or leave the two of them together and find myself far from them both? Even if we go as a family or I take someone with us to sit with Big Sister, we’re split up. Quinns couldn’t go with a group of friends without being separated from them.

Having designated wheelchair spaces with a carer seat may comply with the regulations but I’m not sure how much input there has been from anyone with lived experience.

The Macrobert Arts Centre is different. In one screen the wheelchair space is on the back row with ample space beside for us all to sit together. In the other screen the entire front row has drop down seats allowing wheelchair users and their families to sit anywhere along the row. 

The downside is we have limited choice of what to watch and we have to wait patiently for films we want to see as there are only two screens compared to the eight of the major cinema. However this is far outweighed by the fact we have access to a Changing Places toilet. 

This is now a necessity for any trip out with Quinns. I was surprised to discover on Changing Places awareness day that only a small fraction of cinemas have one which seems like a missed opportunity.

Cinema really could be a truly accessible activity if only more of them had access to a Changing Places toilet and there was just a little more thought as to the placement of wheelchair spaces. It’s not too much to ask for our budding film star, is it?